Why do we make certain choices and then regret it?

                                               

                         Why do we make certain choices and then regret it?


We usually make choices in 2 ways: premeditated, after a long time of calculations or spontaneous.
In fact, the choice itself does not bother us, but the result it does, when it is the one we do not want to regret the choice. If the result is positive regardless of the choice is a positive one then we have no problem with the choice made.
Which is hard for us to understand that no matter the choice and the result we have to gain, namely information or experience. Information makes us stronger and prepares us for fewer failures over time.

As I have it, in every bad thing there are good parts or in every good thing there are bad parts.
Why do I say that? Well, when something good happens to us, something bad happens to you, your gain is the loss of the other.

Maybe we all always want to win, but we do not know how to lose, we did not understand that life is not only on Plus but there is a balance between good and bad things, and we generally evolve and develop because of the negative things in life. We are trying to improve and learn because we want to go through and solve problems in our lives.
We could do an imagination exercise: only good things happen to us, we make a lot of money doing nothing, everyone loves us, we only have quality friends, nobody rushes you, etc ... you wake up happy, you don't happen nothing bad, you get into bed happy, well what you could learn? Nothing, everything is beautiful around you, you have no shortage of anything, you have everything you need and then clearly you do NOT want anything more.